Swinging Success - Swinger Lifestyle
What about Single People ?
I have described Swinging as something that committed couples do, however; Swinging is not limited to married people. If you are single you can still enjoy this Lifestyle despite the fact most Swinging Clubs and parties do not allow single people (literally, just one person alone) to attend – you usually have to be with someone else making you a `couple`.
If you are single, you will need to find a partner that will enjoy Swinging with you. That partner becomes your friend in The Lifestyle and together you are able to go to swinging parties, Swinging Clubs, or seek other couples for intimate encounters.
To find a Swinger Lifestyle Partner if you are single, place an ad at one of the most respected sex personals sites around, Fresh Swingers .com or Online Swingers .com
Create an ad to find a swinger friend who is interested in exploring a Swinging Lifestyle with you. I have no doubt you will find that friend at this alternative lifestyle Website.
You may consider hiring an escort for the evening. I have often attended Swing Clubs with gentlemen who hired me for this purpose. This is also acceptable however we were very discreet about our relationship.
Swinging is a positive lifestyle that is meant to enhance your life whether you are in a committed relationship (married) or you explore the lifestyle with a friend you trust (single). You just need to know what to do and how to do it.
How and Where to Place a Swingers Ad
Once you and your partner have agreed to try this swingers lifestyle you need to find other couples to have fun with. A good way to do this is to place personals type ads in Swingers` Magazines or Websites.
With a swingers personal ad you are trying to accomplish two things. One, describe accurately who you are and two, what you are looking for.
Are you looking for a one-night stand or are you looking for a long-term relationship/friendship with another couple. Are you or your partner Bi-Sexual? Do you want to just swap partners or are you looking for more of a `Gang Bang` type situation. The possibilities are endless! Browse Swingers ads and see what turns you on if you are not sure.
Once you have outlined what you want out of Swinging you need a decent photo of yourself and your partner. You don`t have to show your face if you want to be discreet but you should have an up to date, full body shot so people will recognize you when you finally meet. It does not have to be a nude shot but many couples do that.
Etiquette
Swinging Etiquette is very simple. You must be polite, charming, clean, and respect that no means no. Just because someone is involved in Swinging does not always mean the will do everything you want. People have their preferences and you always need to show respect and back off it anyone, anytime, objects to your advances.
Always be safe with Swinging. Use condoms and protection to prevent the spread of STD`s. I also suggest that if you enjoy drinking or the use of recreation drugs, use them sparingly on your first encounter with another couple. You need to be sensitive to others needs and you may not be able to accomplish this intoxicated.
Swinging is about feeling good and having fun. Not about getting fucked and having as much sex as you possibly can get. (Although swingers are very open minded, the fact they are very respectful, polite, and not pushy is why they have such abundant sex lives.)
Swinging is an alternative and private lifestyle. Respect your partners wish to remain discreet about their participation in the Swinger Lifestyle. What happens in your encounters should stay in your encounters. You will keep more friends that way in the Swinging Community and Swinger Clubs.
