Basic Swinging Rules to New Swinger

 

 

1) Never attempt to break up a couple of swingers
2) Set your limits and stick to them. If the other swinger party cannot accept them, leave!
3) Move at your own pace; don`t let someone rush you into something you may regret later.
4) Always keep the first meeting on a no strings attached basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer if something doesn`t click.
5) Don`t lie and cheat on your soul mate. If you do you're in the swinger lifestyle for the wrong reason.
6) Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.
7) Don`t cross other people`s limits.
8) Never, under any circumstances exert pressure on a partner to swing.
9) Protect the anonymity of other swingers by refraining from name dropping.
10) Always maintain the highest standards of personal cleanliness and appearance.
11) Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would discredit swingers as a group.
12) Communicate and be honest with your soul mate and other swingers.
13) No, thanks, means NO! No explanation needed.
The swing club NOT is the place to be shy.

 

Rules From the Woman

Just because I smile and say hello, does not mean "take me, take me, and take me! I want your hot love muscle right now!"
When I say "No, thank you" in front of my husband, do not assume I am then going to jump you and fuck your brains out the minute hubby leaves the general vicinity!
NO MEANS NO! On a date, at a dance club, at the grocery store, at a party, OR in a swinger`s club!
Just because I may occasionally play with someone besides my husband sure as hell does not mean I want to play with you
My body is mine! Do not touch it unless I tell you it`s okay to.
If, after both my husband and I getting to know you, we decide to include you in our sexual play activities (swinging), realize this is an extremely rare privilege And treat it as such! Show us both respect!
If we do decide to play with you, and you do not treat it as the privilege it is, but instead talk about it to everyone else you know, trust me, we will be your LAST swinging partners. No one likes guys who kiss & tell!
If, on the other hand, we decide to play with you, and you are every bit as mature and respectful as we hope, and we all have a wonderful time, you can probably look forward to many more good times ahead!

 

Rules From the Husband

Do not approach only my wife, we are a couple, and since I have final say on who I share her with, it`s best to approach me first. (To Swing)
Do not tell my wife that you can give her something she has never had before, it can`t be done.
Do not be possessive with she, don`t touch, kiss, or fondle her unless she says it`s okay to do so.
Don`t be pushy; we will let you know if we are interested in inviting you to play with us. (Begging is so unattractive, don't you think)
Remember she is mi wife, not a single female and we are a couple, show respect and be a gentleman.