How to Persuade Your Partner to Participate in a Threesome ?

 

 

Many threesome initiatives are started by males. There are exceptions of course in threesome all is valid, however in the vast majority of cases it's the guys that come up with the idea...of the threesome.

If the female is the one with the initiative or if both of you are convinced about pursuing the threesome fantasy, you're one step ahead.

However if you'd like to experience a threesome and you've never discussed it with your partner, you might need some guidelines to help you persuading her into participating in your threesome fantasy.

The first thing that you've got to take into consideration to threesome is that women place high values on the pair-bond.

Women are very apprehensive of anyone and anything threatening the health and longevity of the relationship between her and her partner for a threesome.

For most women, a threesome carries risks she's not eager to accept. The first giant obstacle to the threesome is that you'll face will be to overcome her insecurity.

Besides the social conditioning she was raised with, there are some obstacles that need to be cleared before she can be enthusiastic about inviting someone else into an intimate session.

- Any woman who truly cares about you worries about the relationship, with all the classic fears and uncertainty about your love. You have to understand that she often asks herself; "Does he love me fully?"

- "Does he love only me ?"

- "Does he really like me the way I am ?"

- "Am I woman enough to keep him satisfied ? only for a threesome "

- "Will he leave me for a younger/firmer/prettier woman ?"

Filled with uncertainty and jealously she will defend her turf against all possible threats for a threesome.

The only responsible person to ease the above mentioned issues is the male in the relationship. Happy, secure, confident women aren't very jealous.

 

What Behavior Triggers Her Insecurity?

If your partner is jealous, the root might stem from your own behavior to her accept the threesome. If you recognize yourself in some of this behavior, your partner has every right to feel insecure about your relationship:

- You've frequently expressed your dissatisfaction about her
- You constantly criticize her and never compliment her
- You flirt with every cute woman you see
- You stay out all night from time to time
- You've habitually expressed your discontent with your life and your relationship
- You only touch her while having sex and you don't express your love often
- You've threatened to leave her

Any of these types of behavior will rapidly turn into insecurity, resentment and a constant jealousy. The insecure woman's worst nightmare is another female in her life and the last thing she'll do is invite another woman into your bed for practice a threesome.

Remember: your partner has to feel very secure of your relationship before she grants you a threesome. So make sure you never threaten your relationship for a threesome. It doesn't matter how angry or upset you become. She needs to know that you guys are an item and nothing will ever break your bond for no practice a threesome.